Bo’s 2025 Negotiation Form – BDSM checklist – Check in Form – Communicate with your partner about BDSM
October 22nd, 2025 // 7:16 pm @ Site Admin
COMMUNICATION, COMMUNICATION, COMMUNICATION!
It’s the most important part of BDSM and vanilla relationships alike.
The more you know about your partner, the safer and more exciting your playtime will be.
Called by many names, a Negotiation form, BDSM Checklist, Check-in form is just a list of kinky activities. Don’t be overwhelmed, you may have no idea what some of these things are, and that’s OKAY! Some things might seem extreme or even shocking to you.
Don’t worry; you NEVER have to do anything you don’t want to do. Sometimes we might only be interested in fantasizing about certain things and not actually doing them in real life. That’s what negotiation is for, to share with your partner what you will, won’t and might, do.
Negotiation forms will give you new ideas, spur communication and remember, your answers will change over time and depending on what person you are filling this out for. Some words have similar meaning and are left ambiguous, to see what they mean to you. This form can be filled out by the Top/Dominant, bottom/submissive or Switch.
Download a PDF Version
Click here to see a google Doc version
NOTE: You will be prompted to make a copy of the file to save it to your own Google Drive.
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