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50 Shades of Curious

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BDSM for Beginners

by Bo Blaze, PCC

50 Shades of Curious: BDSM for Beginners by Bo Blaze, PCC is the new book by America’s favorite Fifty Shades of Grey coach and BDSM expert! You’ve read Fifty Shades of Grey or you’re new to BDSM and you want to take that big step from fantasy into reality. You need a “BDSM for beginners” book but who can you trust to give you the information you need to safely try it for yourself?

No one is more qualified than Bo Blaze, PCC! Bo is the winner of the 2011 Pantheon of Leather President’s Award and has helped thousands learn to practice safe, sane and consensual BDSM over the last 10 years as the novice group facilitator and a board member emeritus, for The Eulenspiegel Society (TES), the oldest and largest BDSM support and education group in the country. Bo is also a PCC-certified “alternative” life coach who specializes in alternative sexual relationships and non-traditional lifestyles. He is a nationally known expert on kink, lifestyle BDSM, ethical non-monogamy, the fetish world and LGBT issues. He has taught and lectured at hundreds of universities, conferences, and alternative events.

And don’t just take our word for it. See what others have to say about Fifty Shades of Curious:

“It’s so refreshing to get common sense advice about kinky sex! Bo Blaze has been teaching curious pleasure-seekers how to have kinky sex for over a decade, so he knows all the answers to your questions. With this book, you’ll get a safe and thorough understanding of BDSM and how to enjoy it in your own relationship. I really respect what he’s done here.”
Susan Wright – Founder National Coalition For Sexual Freedom

“Bo is always a big hit when he guest lectures for my human sexuality students each year, the feedback is through the roof positive. If you are new to the world of BDSM, you need to read Bo’s book, 50 Shades of Curious. He is able to take complex ideas and relate them in simple terms in a fun, informative manner. His enthusiasm is infectious as he relays inspiration through the book. Bo truly is America’s BDSM expert for beginners.”
Dr. Miro Gudelsky – Noted sex therapist and head of alternative sexuality studies at CUNY Purchase

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“This book is a great resource for those curious about their sexuality or anyone who has ever had a kinky thought cross their mind. Reading it will give you a fantastic overview of what BDSM has to offer. It will encourage you to embrace and explore parts of yourself you didn’t know were there and once you find them, how to stay safely act upon and love your interests and kinks without being ashamed.”
Holli Quinn – President, Conversio Virium, Columbia University

“If you are new to the fifty shades world, you need to read this book.”
Dan Davis, Editor, Club Magazine

“With the release of 50 Shades of Grey, a tidal wave of interest in BDSM and kinky sex generally has been spawned among the general population. Many of the casually interested will become seriously interested in personal explorations and that’s where important works like 50 Shades of Curious contribute to making sure that those explorations are informed and safe. Kudos to Bo Blaze for helping these novice kinksters in a meaningful and important way.”
Race Bannon – Author of the best seller Learning The Ropes: A Basic Guide to Safe and Fun SM Lovemaking

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“Only novice coach Bo Blaze could have written such a warm and friendly introduction to BDSM. It’s light, informative – and downright welcoming.”
Dr. Staci Newmahr – Author of Playing on the Edge: Sadomasochism, Risk, and Intimacy

“Like sitting with a friend and having a kinky chat about sex, love, and relationships.”
Dr. Charley Ferrer – Author BDSM The Naked Truth

“An excellent primer for those just curious or those wanting to seriously explore their hidden desires.”
John Santerineross – Artist and Author of Dream: The Dark Erotic Photographic Visions

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“50 Shades of Curious ought to be required reading for all 32 million readers of Fifty Shades of Grey. Bo goes into great detail, elaborating on the how’s, when’s, where’s, and why’s of kinky play. Reading his treatise will further the educational opportunities for anybody wishing to actually start their kinky exploration. This book should live on your nightstand. Highly recommended!”
“Uncle” Frazier – Owner of The Crucible, Washington DC’s only alternative lifestyle/BDSM club

“I wish this book had existed when I entered the BDSM scene. It would have saved me many hours of pain and confusion. Thankfully, people exploring BDSM today have this gem to help them steer clear of such pitfalls.”
Amber Rose Thompson – Author of Tied to Passion

“A great introduction to what really happens in the lifestyle. For those whose curiosity was peaked by 50 Shades of Gray and want to learn more, it’s a must-read.”
Kasi Alexander – author of Becoming Sage and the entire Keyhole series

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“As a well-known educator on alternative sexual relationships and non-traditional lifestyles, Bo Blaze is now sharing his wealth of knowledge in book form. The book represents a treasure chest of information and experiences – from basic safety, how to get started, the importance of communication – to BDSM play and alternative lifestyle relationships. Readers beware, you are in for a treat.”
Eric Pride – Founder of NYC Kinky Living

“When someone lives and breathes this lifestyle passionately like Bo Blaze has done for nearly two decades, you can be assured you will get the most valuable information the BDSM community has to offer. A must read if you are beginning your journey into the world of BDSM. Bravo Bo on a wonderful book and enriching us with your unparalleled experience!”
Sir Viktor – Founder

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Bo Blaze is the "Alternative" life coach. Specializing in the Entertainment Industry, Alternative Relationships & Sexuality and anyone else who's life is just a little bit left of center. He has 20 years of experience in the music industry and has worked with a variety of entertainers and touring musicians from the "most high profile" to the "completely unknown". He has vast experience with alternative lifestyles & communities including, Polyamory, Leather, BDSM, Kinky, Queer, Fetish, Adult, Gay, Lesbian, Transgendered, Transsexual, Crossdressing, LGBT, Leather Family, adult entertainers, sex workers etc. Bo's own struggle and subsequent success fighting his food addiction makes him an excellent choice as a Bulimia and Food Addiction Coach.