About Bo

Bo Blaze is a PCC certified “Alternative” life coach, specializing in Alternative Sexual Relationships & the Entertainment Industry!

Bo is a nationally known expert on Kink, Lifestyle BDSM, Ethical Non-Monogamy (Polyamory), the Fetish World and LGBT issues. He is also a 20+ year veteran of the entertainment industry as a Music business manager, producer, video director & editor as well as a comedy writer and performer. He has taught and lectured all over the country at hundreds of universities, conferences and various alternative and entertainment events. He is the winner of the Pantheon of Leather President’s Award and helped thousands learn to practice Safe, Sane & Consensual BDSM for over 13 years, as the the Novice Group facilitator, for the oldest & largest BDSM support and education group in the Country. He is the author of the book “50 Shades of Curious: BDSM for Beginners”.

Some interesting things about Bo Blaze:

He is a PCC certified member of the International Coach Federation since 2011 and a graduate and CVCC certified member of the Center for Coaching Mastery.

He is the author of the book “50 Shades of Curious – BDSM for Beginners”. The book has received rave reviews from the BDSM community and is available as a Softcover & Kindle download. For more information and many reviews on the book, please visit Bo’s Amazon.com page.

He has taught and lectured all over the country, at various institutes of higher learning; Columbia University, New York University, Rutgers University, CUNY Laguardia, Colorado College, The Institute for the arts in Psychotherapy, IPG Sex Therapist Training, SAR in the City: Sex Therapist AASECT accreditation training and at various entertainment conventions;  CMJ Music Marathon, Foundations Forum and the Philadelphia Music Conference. He has also spoken at countless alternative lifestyle conferences, classes and events; TES Fest, Black Rose, The Floating World, Exxotica Expo, The Pleasure Chest, Deja Vu Love Boutique, Adventures in Sexuality, Cirque De Plaisir, Fetish Con, BDSM Writers Conference, Pantheon of Leather, Camp Crucible, NorthEast Power Exchange, CLAW,  BondCon, ClubX, APEX, NYC LGBT Center.

He has been a guest, quoted and noted in various media; CNN, The NY Times, NY Post, The Daily News, Bergen Record, Star Ledger, Herald & News, Huffington Post, The Guardian, Mademan.com, The Lady Brain Show, Sex 2.0, Brain World Magazine, 50 Shades of American Women Magazine, The Randi Lupo Show, KSTE TALK650-CA, KWSS 106.7-AZ, WWRL 1600-NYC, “The Curtis Sliwa Morning Show” on WABC Radio, Billboard, Mix, Pro Sound news, The Music Paper, The Aquarian, Agent & Manager, Steppin’ Out, and EC Rocker.

He is the creator of the BLAZO!! Network & “The NJ Comedy Syndicate”, collaborating with some of the top comics in NJ. He produces, directs, writes & edits their programming including a diverse group of  you tube shows like “Eating Funny”, “Comedians talk to Porn Stars about Comedy“, “Comedians Review”, “Tipping Angels” and many more. He is also the cartoon voice & live performance version of the infamous “Rabbi Blazo Sings the Classics”. They have had several of their projects in the Cinekink Film Festival and won an Honorable Best Mention award as well of having the festival’s intro clip shown to film festival audiences all over the world.

He is a Board Member Emeritus for the oldest and largest alternative sexuality group in the country, The Eulenspiegel Society (TES) in NYC. He also facilitated their  Novice Group for over 13 years and helped thousands of people safely enter the world of BDSM.

He was the BDSM consultant for the movie “SHORT BUS”, written and directed by John Cameron Mitchell (Hedwig & the Angry Inch – film/broadway)

He was the winner of the 2011 President’s award & has been nominated for over 15 Pantheon  awards for his service to the Alternative, BDSM and Leather Communities.

He was the winner of the 2011 Trusted Authority contest, which rewards authorities in their respective fields with educational grants.

He is a writer for several sex positive websites.

He wrote the nationally syndicated music business advice column “Bo Knows”.

He attended the American Academy of Dramatic Arts in NYC, has been heard all over the world as a voice-over artist and the voice of Neil Diamond on numerous song parodies and has been a consultant on several major motion pictures.

He is the creator and head writer of the cartoon “Lil Pengy” and the owner of the entertainment network, BLAZO!!.

He has been an Artist Manager, Record Producer, Video Director, Promoter, Writer and Web Designer,

His business clients have included everyone from Time Warner to Sharp Electronics, Kyocera Mita and Sherwin Williams to The United Way, Sabrett Hotdogs and the New York Public Library.

He has struggled with his weight and been an insulin dependent type 2 diabetic. Inspired to live a more authentic life, and stick around to enjoy his amazing family and friends, he has changed his lifestyle and lost quite a bit of weight. Although he did not use a 12 step or other traditional program, Bo identifies as a compulsive over eater and  a recovering food addict and bulimic.

He has lived a polyamorous lifestyle with his wife Siouxsie, their partners, and extended family for over since 1996.

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Bo Blaze is the "Alternative" life coach. Specializing in the Entertainment Industry, Alternative Relationships & Sexuality and anyone else who's life is just a little bit left of center. He has 20 years of experience in the music industry and has worked with a variety of entertainers and touring musicians from the "most high profile" to the "completely unknown". He has vast experience with alternative lifestyles & communities including, Polyamory, Leather, BDSM, Kinky, Queer, Fetish, Adult, Gay, Lesbian, Transgendered, Transsexual, Crossdressing, LGBT, Leather Family, adult entertainers, sex workers etc. Bo's own struggle and subsequent success fighting his food addiction makes him an excellent choice as a Bulimia and Food Addiction Coach.