Bo’s Negotiation Form – BDSM checklist – Check in Form – Communicate with your partner about BDSM

Bo’s Negotiation Form – BDSM checklist – Check in Form – Communicate with your partner about BDSM

November 4th, 2016 // 1:06 pm @

COMMUNICATION, COMMUNICATION, COMMUNICATION!Negotiation Form

It’s the most important part of BDSM and vanilla relationships alike.

The more you know about your partner, the safer and more exciting your playtime will be.

Called by many names, a Negotiation form, BDSM Checklist, Check-in form is just a list of kinky activities. Don’t be overwhelmed, you may have no idea what some of these things are, and that’s OKAY! Some things might seem extreme or even shocking to you.

Don’t worry; you NEVER have to do anything you don’t want to do. Sometimes we might only be interested in fantasizing about certain things and not actually doing them in real life. That’s what negotiation is for, to share with your partner what you will, won’t and might, do.

Negotiation forms will give you new ideas, spur communication and remember, your answers will change over time and depending on what person you are filling this out for. Some words have similar meaning and are left ambiguous, to see what they mean to you. This form can be filled out by the Top/Dominant, bottom/submissive or Switch!

Click here to download a word document so you can fill it out on your computer

Click here to download a PDF version


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Bo Blaze is the "Alternative" life coach. Specializing in the Entertainment Industry, Alternative Relationships & Sexuality and anyone else who's life is just a little bit left of center. He has 20 years of experience in the music industry and has worked with a variety of entertainers and touring musicians from the "most high profile" to the "completely unknown". He has vast experience with alternative lifestyles & communities including, Polyamory, Leather, BDSM, Kinky, Queer, Fetish, Adult, Gay, Lesbian, Transgendered, Transsexual, Crossdressing, LGBT, Leather Family, adult entertainers, sex workers etc. Bo's own struggle and subsequent success fighting his food addiction makes him an excellent choice as a Bulimia and Food Addiction Coach.